Call No Man Your Father
Dear Phil,
I’m stuck on Matthew 23:8–10 NASB. Jesus says, “Do not be called Rabbi; for One is your Teacher, and you are all brothers. Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. Do not be called leaders; for One is your Leader, that is, Christ.” Are we really not supposed to refer to people as teacher, doctor, or boss?
Curtis
I’m stuck on Matthew 23:8–10 NASB. Jesus says, “Do not be called Rabbi; for One is your Teacher, and you are all brothers. Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your Father, He who is in heaven. Do not be called leaders; for One is your Leader, that is, Christ.” Are we really not supposed to refer to people as teacher, doctor, or boss?
Curtis
Dear Curtis,
Jesus says some challenging words! Craig Blomberg in the New American Commentary on Matthew 23:5–10 was helpful to me. He notes that the NT uses the categories of ‘teacher’ and ‘father’ in reference to believers:
Thus Jesus exposes the scribes’ and Pharisees’ love of honor and lists the ways they seek it and love receiving it.
In addition to what Blomberg said above, I would note that the categories of apostles (Acts 6:6), elders (Acts 11:30), overseers and deacons (Phil 1:1) were used throughout the NT as particular offices, along with evangelist, pastor, and prophet (Eph 4:11; Acts 21:8). So, it would seem that the use of an office, e.g., “pastor” as a means of identifying the persons who serve in that office, would be both appropriate and sanctioned by the Spirit.
On the other hand, The Reverend, The Right Reverend, His Holiness, His Eminence, My Lord, and other such honorifics find no support in the NT and, I would argue, are examples of the kind of thing Jesus was rebuking in this passage.
D.A. Carson comments in the Expositor’s Bible Commentary:
Here’s the bottom line: Since we all have one Father, we are family in Christ. Within His Church, Christ prohibits the use of honorary titles that imply their bearers are superior to other believers.
Blessings,
Phil
Jesus says some challenging words! Craig Blomberg in the New American Commentary on Matthew 23:5–10 was helpful to me. He notes that the NT uses the categories of ‘teacher’ and ‘father’ in reference to believers:
“People are properly called teachers in Acts 13:1; 1 Tim. 2:7; and Heb. 5:12. Paul will even refer to a spiritual gift that enables some people to be so identified (Eph. 4:11; 1 Cor. 12:28–29; cf. James 3:1). It remains appropriate to call a biological parent one’s father, and even one’s spiritual parent may be addressed with this term (1 Cor. 4:15; cf. also 1 John 2:13; Acts 22:1). So the point of Matthew 23:8–12 must be that such titles are not to be used to confer privilege or status.”Blomberg’s interpretation fits the preceding context well, for Jesus had just said, “They do all their deeds to be seen by others. For they make their phylacteries broad and their fringes long, and they love the place of honor at feasts and the best seats in the synagogues and greetings in the marketplaces and being called rabbi by others” (Matt 23:5–7).
Thus Jesus exposes the scribes’ and Pharisees’ love of honor and lists the ways they seek it and love receiving it.
In addition to what Blomberg said above, I would note that the categories of apostles (Acts 6:6), elders (Acts 11:30), overseers and deacons (Phil 1:1) were used throughout the NT as particular offices, along with evangelist, pastor, and prophet (Eph 4:11; Acts 21:8). So, it would seem that the use of an office, e.g., “pastor” as a means of identifying the persons who serve in that office, would be both appropriate and sanctioned by the Spirit.
On the other hand, The Reverend, The Right Reverend, His Holiness, His Eminence, My Lord, and other such honorifics find no support in the NT and, I would argue, are examples of the kind of thing Jesus was rebuking in this passage.
D.A. Carson comments in the Expositor’s Bible Commentary:
“This verse not only [forbids] self–exaltation in teaching divine things but rejects the authority of the religious teachers of Jesus’ day.…Among those who follow Jesus, a brotherly relationship is required.…Jesus was not justifying that particularly perverse pride that cloaks itself in discourtesy.…The risen Christ is as displeased with those in His Church who demand unquestioning submission to themselves and their opinions and confuse a reputation for showy piety with godly surrender…as he ever was with any Pharisee.”When I am in a church context, I say to people, “When I am teaching at the college, I am ‘Dr. Phil’ or ‘Dr. Brown’ because it is an academic setting. But when I gather with the body of Christ in church, I am ‘Bro. Phil’ or ‘Bro. Brown’ or just ‘Phil.’ Neither my status as an ordained elder nor the Ph.D. degree I earned with long, hard work, elevate me above any of my brothers and sisters in Christ.” Scripture is clear that those who labor in the Word and doctrine are worthy of double honor (1 Tim 5:17–18). However, that honor is an expression of gratitude for their service, not a conferral of superiority, status, or value with respect to other believers. Peter is clear that those who are his fellow elders and under–shepherds are to care for the flock, not as lords, but as servants (1 Pet 5:1–5).
Here’s the bottom line: Since we all have one Father, we are family in Christ. Within His Church, Christ prohibits the use of honorary titles that imply their bearers are superior to other believers.
Blessings,
Phil